Versus-in-Law

Dirty jokes & limericks
Order, prescription, and formality
versus
Blessings and singing
Undiscipline and disorder

Sterility and presentability
Cleanliness and organization
versus
Homeyness and relaxed comfort
Haphazardness and disinterest

Coldly impersonal and judgy
Peace, quiet, and introspective
versus
Boisterously inviting and physical
Cacophonous, busy, and claustrophobic

Deriding the repellent
Clinging to the comfortable
versus
Embracing the loving
Uncomfortable with the unexpected